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		<title>By: fran melmed</title>
		<link>http://www.frannyoxford.com/wordpress/2009/09/memo-to-hr-sexual-and-gender-diversity-isnt-gay/comment-page-1/#comment-42</link>
		<dc:creator>fran melmed</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 23 Oct 2009 12:13:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>franny, great post. and i love kerry&#039;s comment above. i have friends who are out and friends who are not -- and the latter have partners who ARE out. the strain and energy surrounding workplace conversations for those not out is something straight people don&#039;t even have to think about. love the energy, integrity, and calling people on the carpet.  f</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>franny, great post. and i love kerry&#8217;s comment above. i have friends who are out and friends who are not &#8212; and the latter have partners who ARE out. the strain and energy surrounding workplace conversations for those not out is something straight people don&#8217;t even have to think about. love the energy, integrity, and calling people on the carpet.  f</p>
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		<title>By: Marsha Keeffer</title>
		<link>http://www.frannyoxford.com/wordpress/2009/09/memo-to-hr-sexual-and-gender-diversity-isnt-gay/comment-page-1/#comment-39</link>
		<dc:creator>Marsha Keeffer</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 19 Oct 2009 02:35:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Memo to:  All Fortune 500 CEOs

If you want to recruit and retain exceptional employees (they&#039;re driving your business, aren&#039;t they?) listen to this woman!  Those of you who are smarter than your peers will have already contacted Fran to snag her for your organization.

Excellent post - thanks!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Memo to:  All Fortune 500 CEOs</p>
<p>If you want to recruit and retain exceptional employees (they&#8217;re driving your business, aren&#8217;t they?) listen to this woman!  Those of you who are smarter than your peers will have already contacted Fran to snag her for your organization.</p>
<p>Excellent post &#8211; thanks!</p>
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		<title>By: JimmyBean</title>
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		<dc:creator>JimmyBean</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 01 Oct 2009 08:52:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I don&#039;t know If I said it already but ...Great site...keep up the good work. :) I read a lot of blogs on a daily basis and for the most part, people lack substance but, I just wanted to make a quick comment to say I&#039;m glad I found your blog.  Thanks, :)

A definite great read..Jim Bean</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I don&#8217;t know If I said it already but &#8230;Great site&#8230;keep up the good work. <img src='http://www.frannyoxford.com/wordpress/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />  I read a lot of blogs on a daily basis and for the most part, people lack substance but, I just wanted to make a quick comment to say I&#8217;m glad I found your blog.  Thanks, <img src='http://www.frannyoxford.com/wordpress/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>A definite great read..Jim Bean</p>
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		<title>By: Victorio Milian</title>
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		<dc:creator>Victorio Milian</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 25 Sep 2009 19:25:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Great post, but I expected no less from a HR pro like you. Surprise me by having something &lt;i&gt;mediocre&lt;/i&gt; to say, Franny!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Great post, but I expected no less from a HR pro like you. Surprise me by having something <i>mediocre</i> to say, Franny!</p>
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		<title>By: Lisa Macabu</title>
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		<dc:creator>Lisa Macabu</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 24 Sep 2009 19:55:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>great post!  i changed our respectful workplace and non-discrimination policies to include not only sexual orientation but gender identity as well.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>great post!  i changed our respectful workplace and non-discrimination policies to include not only sexual orientation but gender identity as well.</p>
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		<title>By: Kerry</title>
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		<dc:creator>Kerry</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 24 Sep 2009 18:46:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Here&#039;s my thing:  if only LGBT object to these kinds of companies, it&#039;s not going to change anytime soon.  You&#039;re, what, 10% of the population?  It takes a long time to change stuff if only 10% of the population is working on it.

Straight HR people need to acquire a clue.  When I look at whether I want to work for a company, I ask about whether they have domestic partner benefits too, even though I don&#039;t need them (I&#039;m straight and married, so I get them through my husband).  I poke around and see how many women and people of color are in high ranking jobs, or whether people start meetings with prayers.  

See, my job as a recruiter/HR professional is much easier when people aren&#039;t excluded.  If there&#039;s a whole population of people who aren&#039;t going to be comfortable working there, that means I can&#039;t go out and hire the best.  I can only hire the best of a limited pool.  I&#039;m over that.

I&#039;ve also been the HR person in companies where people were discriminated against, and there was NO support for addressing the issue.  I&#039;m over that too.

Additionally, in many companies, your candidates and employees are also customers (or potential customers).  When you treat some people like crap, people notice, and they spread the word.  I want to work for successful companies, and successful companies don&#039;t alienate customers.  

Even people who somehow fail to comprehend that these things are basic human rights issues should surely be able to get the *business* imperative for treating people fairly.  Not everyone has a conscience, but everyone likes money, right?  

I&#039;m off to google &quot;Houston AND sugar&quot; so I can make sure I&#039;m not supporting people who think &quot;those people&quot; are &quot;a problem.&quot;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Here&#8217;s my thing:  if only LGBT object to these kinds of companies, it&#8217;s not going to change anytime soon.  You&#8217;re, what, 10% of the population?  It takes a long time to change stuff if only 10% of the population is working on it.</p>
<p>Straight HR people need to acquire a clue.  When I look at whether I want to work for a company, I ask about whether they have domestic partner benefits too, even though I don&#8217;t need them (I&#8217;m straight and married, so I get them through my husband).  I poke around and see how many women and people of color are in high ranking jobs, or whether people start meetings with prayers.  </p>
<p>See, my job as a recruiter/HR professional is much easier when people aren&#8217;t excluded.  If there&#8217;s a whole population of people who aren&#8217;t going to be comfortable working there, that means I can&#8217;t go out and hire the best.  I can only hire the best of a limited pool.  I&#8217;m over that.</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve also been the HR person in companies where people were discriminated against, and there was NO support for addressing the issue.  I&#8217;m over that too.</p>
<p>Additionally, in many companies, your candidates and employees are also customers (or potential customers).  When you treat some people like crap, people notice, and they spread the word.  I want to work for successful companies, and successful companies don&#8217;t alienate customers.  </p>
<p>Even people who somehow fail to comprehend that these things are basic human rights issues should surely be able to get the *business* imperative for treating people fairly.  Not everyone has a conscience, but everyone likes money, right?  </p>
<p>I&#8217;m off to google &#8220;Houston AND sugar&#8221; so I can make sure I&#8217;m not supporting people who think &#8220;those people&#8221; are &#8220;a problem.&#8221;</p>
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		<title>By: Michael VanDervort</title>
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		<dc:creator>Michael VanDervort</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 24 Sep 2009 18:42:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This is exactly the reason you should be blogging!  You are an HR Rock Star in addition to being an HR Superstar, and I love you for it!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is exactly the reason you should be blogging!  You are an HR Rock Star in addition to being an HR Superstar, and I love you for it!</p>
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